This might just be my shortest post so far, so I will cut the preamble and proceed. It's Monday, no time, everything is sharp sharp today including this post... So I had one short conversation with this lady I meet recently. I didn't need to share it but I am doing so already.
She asked me: “What of your girlfriend?”
“What if I don’t have any?” was my response.
“When you are not gay… Body no bi fire wood naa. Why don’t you have a girlfriend or are you actually trying to tell me that you are gay?”
I was just meeting her for the first time. She is very jovial; a kind of person who loves to express herself, that was my observation. She went on trying to make her point on my need to have a girlfriend, stressing most the need to satisfy my sexual need (urge) whenever “conji dey worry me” (as in, when I am horny). She wasn't proposing to be the one to satisfy me ooo, she was only sharing her opinion... But what if i'm wrong seef? Lols.
“I never said I don’t have a girlfriend, I only said what if I don’t have a girlfriend?” I had to cut in after I had heard enough from her and enough really got me thinking.
Now, I don’t want to be biased in my thinking… lemme share some of the things that went through my mind:
· So I must have a girl friend?
· So if I don’t have a girlfriend, it means I am gay?
· So my girlfriend is to give-in to my sexual urge and satisfy me, whenever I am on?
· So whenever I am horny, I must find a means or girl to satisfy my urge, girlfriend or not?
· What is the true position of sex is a relationship (for the unmarried)?
· What if I am not in a relationship, how do I handle my sexual urge, because true true, body no bi fire wood?
· What is truly the role of the female folks in relationships between them and their boyfriends?
On a converse situation (where I speak as a lady), I would ask if I should have a boyfriend with a keen intention to satisfy her sexual urge amongst others...
Do have a wonderful day and week.
PS. My blogversary is in two days’ time and my spirit has said I must take my number one blog fan over the year to the movies. I am sure she knows herself already (do you want to guess who she is?)… I will surely contact her. Lol. Aspa other plans, stay tuned, praying there will be one because economy don tight.